Leading Through Fear & Uncertainty

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From our mission work in Asia

Leading Through Fear and Uncertainty

There are moments in leadership when the path ahead is anything but clear.

The plans we carefully crafted change. The outcomes we hoped for remain uncertain. The challenges in front of us seem larger than our resources, our experience, or even our courage.

In those moments, we have a choice.

We can resist, retreat, and cling to fear. Or we can move forward despite the uncertainty, trusting that purpose is greater than our anxiety and hope is stronger than our doubt.

I have faced this reality many times through our work serving people experiencing homelessness and survivors of human trafficking. Some situations carry significant risks because the goal is not simply to meet a temporary need. The objective is freedom. The objective is restoration. The objective is helping someone escape exploitation, poverty, or circumstances that have held them captive for far too long.

Whenever we step into difficult situations, there is always a question that emerges:

Is the risk worth the reward?

For me, the answer has always been yes.

Every life restored is worth it.

Every child given a second chance is worth it.

Every person who discovers freedom, hope, and dignity is worth it.

Over the years, I have found two forces that are more powerful than fear: love and purpose.

When we live with a clear sense of purpose and a genuine love for others, our “why” becomes louder than our fears. That does not mean fear disappears. In fact, there have been many moments when fear felt overwhelming.

Fear has a way of screaming.

Love often whispers.

Yet I’ve learned that courage is found in that whisper. It is found in the quiet reminder to remember why we started. It begins as a small seed, but when nurtured through faith, conviction, and action, it grows.

That seed of courage moves us from saying, “Someone should do something about this” to asking, “What can I do about this?”

It challenges us to ask deeper questions:

  • Why am I here at this point in history?
  • What unique gifts have I been given?
  • What role am I meant to play in this story?

The truth is that none of us can do everything.

We are not superheroes.

But we can all do something.

Perhaps your leadership journey does not involve life-threatening situations. Perhaps you are leading through organizational change, economic uncertainty, staff turnover, or personal challenges. Maybe you are carrying the weight of difficult decisions while wondering what the future holds.

If so, I understand.

And while every situation is different, I have found that the principles remain remarkably similar.

Remember Your Why

When uncertainty rises, reconnect with the reason you stepped into leadership in the first place.

Who are you serving?

Who benefits from your vision, wisdom, and perseverance?

Purpose has a way of steadying us when everything else feels unstable.

Use What Is Already in Your Hands

Many leaders spend so much time focusing on what they lack that they overlook what they already possess.

Experience.

Relationships.

Wisdom.

Skills.

Faith.

Resilience.

Take inventory. Often, the tools needed for the next season are already within reach.

Focus on What You Can Control

Fear tends to magnify everything beyond our control.

Great leadership focuses on what can be influenced today.

You can control your attitude.

You can control your words.

You can control your behaviors and responses.

You can choose to lead by example.

One step at a time. One decision at a time. One day at a time.

Let Feelings Inform You, Not Direct You

Fear is real.

Ignoring it is not leadership.

But allowing it to dominate every decision is not leadership either.

Feelings are indicators, not dictators.

They provide information, but they should not determine our destination.

Acknowledge the fear. Evaluate the situation. Then move forward with wisdom and purpose.

Love Still Wins

One of the greatest privileges of my life is hearing stories from individuals whose lives have been transformed. Every letter, every testimony, and every story of restoration reminds me why this work matters.

Love changes lives.

Love restores hope.

Love overcomes fear.

And every time I witness someone’s journey from despair to freedom, I am reminded that the reward far outweighs the risk.

For me, it is far better to step into the arena and serve than to sit on the sidelines wondering why no one intervened.

The world may never need us to do everything.

But it does need us to do something.

So whatever challenge lies before you today, remember your why. Lean into your purpose. Let love speak louder than fear.

You may discover that courage was there all along, waiting for you to take the next step.

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About the Author

Through writing, speaking, and nonprofit leadership, I am passionate about helping individuals discover purpose, lead with courage, and create lasting impact in their communities.

To learn more about our work serving individuals experiencing homelessness and survivors of human trafficking, visit:

https://OperationGodisLove.org

Love,

Erin Lamb

The Power of Being Seen

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Soul Sunday: The Power of Being Seen

Your investment doesn’t have to be millions of dollars to make a meaningful impact.

Several years ago, OGL, the nonprofit homeless outreach I founded, was invited to Indiana to help lead community outreaches. During one of those trips, we spent time listening to the stories of people experiencing homelessness.

One gentleman, whom I’ll call Jon, shared his journey of traveling from state to state in search of work.

As we talked, he shared a lesson I have never forgotten:

“People think it’s the big things that change lives, yet forget the seemingly small things do too.”

Curious, we asked him to explain.

He told us that during his travels, people would often hand him a bottle of water. It seemed simple, almost insignificant. But to him, it meant survival.

“I had hunger at times, but I didn’t go thirsty. I’m thankful for the people who simply handed me a bottle of water. They saved my life.”

His words challenged my perspective. What we view as small may be vital to someone else.

Since that day, I’ve made it a habit to keep bottled water in my vehicle. You never know when a simple act of generosity might meet a critical need.

Another encounter comes to mind.

Near a local university, I noticed a man sitting alone with his head down. He appeared discouraged and withdrawn. From a distance, I called out, “Hey buddy, are you hungry? We have food.”

He lifted his head and smiled—a wide grin that immediately changed the atmosphere.

We sat with him for a while, listening to his story. Before we left, he thanked us in a way that stayed with me long after the conversation ended.

“You don’t know how many people walk past me as though I do not exist. You saw me. Thank you.”

Those words were a powerful reminder that people are not only hungry for food. Many are hungry to be seen, heard, and valued.

A bottle of water. A shared meal. A smile. A conversation.

These actions may seem small, but their impact can be profound.

As we move through our days, may we remember that kindness does not require great wealth, influence, or resources. Often, it simply requires awareness and a willingness to care.

The smallest act of compassion may become one of the most meaningful moments in someone else’s story.

Love thy neighbor. ❤️

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What is one small act of kindness someone showed you that made a lasting impact on your life?

Love,

Erin Lamb

Founder/CEO of Empowered & Free

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Three Struggles With How the Church Teaches Marriage

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Three Struggles With How Churches Teach on Marriage

There are a few long-standing struggles I have with how many churches teach about marriage—particularly when it comes to male authority, headship, and the command for wives to submit. These teachings are often presented as biblical truth, yet the framework frequently misses the heart of Jesus and the way God defines leadership, power, and oneness.

Here are three of the biggest tensions I continue to wrestle with.

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1. Leadership Is Rarely Defined the Way God Defines It

One of my greatest struggles with Christian teachings on male authority and headship is how little attention is given to how God defines leadership.

Biblically, leadership is not about control, dominance, or hierarchy. Godly leadership looks like this:

  • Laying one’s life down
  • Serving sacrificially and unselfishly
  • Walking in integrity
  • Using power to empower others

Godly leadership does not subjugate—it elevates.

Jesus modeled this perfectly. Those under Jesus’ authority became stronger, wiser, and more capable. They were sent out to do what they had seen modeled—not to fetch things or cower under commands. Leadership in the Kingdom produces growth, not fear.

This version of leadership sounds nothing like:

“I am your King. Submit, peasants.”

Yet too often, that is how authority is practically lived out in Christian marriages.

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2. The Diminishing of Women’s Leadership, Wisdom, and Skill

Another deep struggle is how these teachings often diminish the leadership, knowledge, and competence of women.

A woman may have known Jesus her entire life. She may be wise in Scripture, finances, leadership, emotional intelligence, and managing a household. Meanwhile, the man she marries may know far less or possess fewer skills—yet she is told to submit to him simply because he is male.

This is not mutual yielding (the part of Ephesians many teachings skip over).

Instead, she is often asked to shrink.

Her voice is softened.
Her authority is surrendered.
Her discernment is overridden.

Over time, she becomes smaller, quieter, and less powerful—not because God designed it that way, but because theology demanded it.

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3. A Lack of Accountability—and Protection—for Women

The final struggle is perhaps the most painful.

From my perspective, churches often fail to hold men fully accountable—especially within the home.

The pattern frequently looks like this:

  • “Just forgive him.”
  • He is removed from leadership at church for a season.
  • Meanwhile, at home, the damage continues.

A man may still be emotionally destructive. A wife’s confidence, sense of safety, or heart may already be shattered. Yet the message remains:

“God put him in charge.”

She is told to pray.
She is told to submit.
She is told God will help her endure.

Protection for women is minimal. If she leaves or divorces, she becomes the sinner—regardless of the harm endured.

This framework does not reflect the heart of Jesus.

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Jesus Is the Filter—Always

Jesus is the model, not cultural interpretations of authority.

Even the apostle Paul made it clear: “Follow me as I follow Christ.” Every part of Scripture must be filtered through the life, teachings, and character of Jesus.

When theology produces fear, silence, powerlessness, or harm, something is off.

I know these words may not change the system—but perhaps they will cause someone to pause, question, and rethink how marriage is taught in the church.

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Words of Jesus on Leadership, Authority, and Oneness

“For this reason a man shall leave his father and mother and be joined to his wife, and the two shall become one flesh.”
—Matthew 19:5

“Whoever wants to be a leader among you must be your servant.”
—Matthew 20:26

“For even the Son of Man did not come to be served, but to serve.”
—Mark 10:45

“Listen carefully: I have given you authority… nothing will in any way harm you. Nevertheless do not rejoice at this, that the spirits are subject to you, but rejoice that your names are recorded in heaven.”
—Luke 10:19–20

Authority in the Kingdom was never meant to crush. It was meant to protect, serve, and bring life.

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Love,

Erin L Lamb

The Christian Experience

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One of my ongoing challenges as a human is my desire for people to make sense. This likely stems from my personality and the way I process information. In my walk with Jesus, there have certainly been moments that did not make sense. What I’ve come to appreciate is that God has always been patient with my questions. And while God is all‑encompassing, I’ve often found people to be far more mysterious. I’d like to share a few reflections that may help explain my perspective.

Throughout the Bible, the importance of loving God and loving our neighbors is emphasized repeatedly. Christians are instructed to love their neighbors as they love themselves. When I strip this down to its simplest form, it resembles what many of us learned early on as “The Golden Rule.” I remember being taught in primary school to do unto others as I would want them to do unto me. That teaching resonated deeply with me. Kindness, love, and respect felt intuitive and life‑giving.

As I grew older, however, I began to notice a disconnect. I encountered people who quoted Scripture, attended church regularly, and openly professed their love for God—yet their behavior toward others felt harsh or dismissive. The kindness and compassion I associated with Jesus were often absent. These individuals could articulate doctrine well and debate theology fluently, yet interactions with them rarely left me feeling drawn toward God. More often, I found myself feeling guarded, unsure how to engage without being wounded.

This has long puzzled me. How do we reconcile the belief that God is love while treating other people in ways that feel anything but loving? I once asked Copilot for insight on this, and the response resonated: people tend to judge others by their actions, while judging themselves by their intentions rather than their impact. That distinction has stayed with me.

Recently, while sharing reflections about Christianity on a new social media platform, I’ve been struck by how often faith conversations can turn combative. Some who identify as Christians engage in ways that feel more like spiritual bullying than spiritual guidance. Scripture is sometimes wielded as a weapon rather than an invitation. I’ve been called names and told I am not a Christian—often for simply sharing the direct words and teachings of Jesus. These moments have invited me to pause and reflect rather than react.

Over the years, a few things have become clearer to me:

Knowing the Bible is not the same as knowing the One it points to.

Abiding in Jesus tends to produce good fruit. Yet I’ve observed that some people’s understanding of God and Jesus is shaped less by Scripture itself and more by culture, church environments, leaders, or family systems. Their version of faith reflects what they were taught rather than what they’ve personally encountered.

I’ve also noticed how easily the desire to be “right” can overshadow the call to love. Winning arguments can become more important than honoring people. Yet love, by its nature, cannot be forced, nor can genuine relationship.

People are at vastly different stages in their walk with God. Some have experienced decades of deep, relational communion with God; others are only beginning to explore who God might be. Each person’s view of God is shaped by their experiences and vantage point, and remembering this has helped me extend more grace.

Another realization has been this: we cannot give away a kind of love we have not yet received. For me to offer agape love to my neighbor, I must first believe and receive God’s love for myself. I’ve encountered many Christians who trust God enough for salvation but still relate to God as though God were harsh, punitive, or perpetually disappointed. When someone has not fully grasped the depth, breadth, and gentleness of God’s love for them, it becomes difficult to extend that love freely to others.

I’ve also struggled to understand why some Christians passionately defend politicians, celebrities, or even celebrity Christians solely because they claim to know God. Jesus spoke plainly when He said we would recognize a tree by its fruit and that His true disciples would be known by their agape—selfless, sacrificial—love. Scripture encourages discernment, urging believers to test and examine what they see. Yet in recent years, I’ve observed a tendency to overlook harmful behavior when the individual is influential or admired. From a faith perspective, influence does not exempt anyone from accountability.

What I’ve come to understand is that humans are not only created to worship; we are also created with a deep desire to belong. When a person or movement aligns with even some of our values, it can become tempting to excuse behaviors that contradict the teachings of Jesus. Idols—whether people, platforms, or ideologies—can quietly offer a false sense of identity, safety, and belonging.

I do not claim to understand everything. I don’t. What does make sense to me are the teachings of Jesus: love God; love your neighbor as yourself; love your enemies; seek to do good and avoid intentional harm; choose honor; let your light shine. Live in a way that invites others to want to know Jesus. Care for the poor. Welcome the stranger. Serve. Seek God in relationship. Be kind to others in the faith. Pray. Forgive. Act with mercy and pursue justice.

The way Jesus lived pointed beyond Himself—to something, or rather Someone, greater. In all my years of following Jesus, I can honestly say I’ve met only a handful of people—perhaps 10 or 12—whose way of living made me want to know Him more deeply. I’ve spent most of my life in church spaces, and over time my prayer has become simple: God, help me live in a way that draws people toward Jesus, not pushes them away. That remains my hope for every follower of Jesus, myself included.

Warmly,

Erin Lamb

When Being Low‑Maintenance Leads to Emotional Exhaustion and Invisible Relationships

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When Being “Low‑Maintenance” Makes You Invisible

I was the low‑maintenance child.
The low‑maintenance friend.
The low‑maintenance employee.
The low‑maintenance girlfriend.

I functioned well on my own. Part of that is personality—but part of it was conditioning.

When you do what you’re told, don’t make messes, don’t ask for much, and stay compliant, it stops being appreciated and starts being expected. Over time, something subtle but painful happens: you become invisible.

From Reliable to Replaceable

You’re labeled the reliable one.
The strong one.
The one who doesn’t need much.

And instead of receiving care, protection, or emotional investment, you’re given more responsibility.

More weight.
More expectations.
More emotional labor.

Slowly, you stop being treated like a person and start being treated like a resource.

People lean on you. They bring their problems, their crises, their emotions—but they invest little or nothing in return. The relationship becomes one‑sided, and you’re expected to accept crumbs simply because you’ve survived on less.

What I Learned About Boundaries

Here’s what I learned—and it wasn’t easy:

I stopped being a resource for people.

If I can figure it out, they can too.
Just because I require less doesn’t mean I deserve less.

I stopped accepting crumbs.
I stopped entertaining people who only show up when they need something.
I stopped allowing emotional gaslighting.

“I Never See You Anymore”

“You’re never around.”
“I never hear from you.”

But let me ask this:

Did you call just to talk to me—not at me?
Did you put time on my calendar for genuine connection instead of emotional dumping?
Did you show up when I wasn’t in crisis?

No?

Then missing me is not my responsibility.

Choosing Health Over Access

These days, I lovingly redirect people to therapists, 24/7 prayer lines, or their pastors—because I am no longer the unpaid emotional support system for people unwilling to do their own work.

That doesn’t make me unkind.
It makes me honest.

Boundaries didn’t make me cold.
They made me whole.

Erin Lamb

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The Purpose Workshop (Virtual): Finding Your “Why” When Life Feels Unclear

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Have you ever reached a point where you realized you were doing all the right things—yet something still felt off?

At I Thought I Knew What Love Was, we talk a lot about relationships, healing, and growth. But underneath all of that is a deeper question many of us wrestle with at different stages of life:

Why am I doing what I’m doing—and does it actually align with who I am now?

That question is the heart of the Purpose Workshop (Virtual).

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Why Finding Your “Why” Matters

Purpose isn’t about having everything figured out or knowing your entire life plan. It’s about understanding what matters to you right now—so your choices, boundaries, relationships, and goals are rooted in clarity instead of confusion.

When you’re connected to your why:

  • Decisions feel less overwhelming
  • You stop repeating patterns that no longer serve you
  • You gain confidence in your next steps
  • Your relationships become more intentional and aligned

The Purpose Workshop is a space to slow down, reflect, and reconnect with yourself—without pressure, comparison, or judgment.

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What the Purpose Workshop Is (and Isn’t)

This is a live virtual workshop designed to guide you through meaningful reflection and practical exercises that help you uncover clarity and direction.

It’s not a lecture.
It’s not about fixing yourself.
It is about creating space to listen to what you already know deep down.

When you register, you receive:

  • Access to the live virtual workshop
  • Downloadable course materials
  • The full workshop recording (even if you can’t attend live)

That means you can participate in real time—or watch later, pause, rewind, and reflect at your own pace.

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Made for Real Life (and Real Schedules)

We know life is full—emotionally and practically. That’s why this workshop is flexible. If you can’t make the live session, you’ll still receive the complete experience, including the recording and materials.

Many participants actually prefer watching the replay so they can sit with the questions, journal, and move through the content slowly.

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Join the Purpose Workshop

If you’re feeling stuck, disconnected, or simply ready to realign with yourself, this workshop is a powerful place to begin.

👉 Learn more and register here:
https://www.empowered-free.com/product-page/the-purpose-workshop-virtual

Clarity doesn’t come from rushing—it comes from understanding your why.

I hope to see you there!

You’re Designed for Freedom | Stop Settling for Less Than God’s Best

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You’re Designed for Freedom

I once heard a pastor say that God will allow you to live at the level you settle for—and I agree. There is more. I sincerely believe we were created for more, yet many people settle for far less than what God desires to give them.

I lived in the land of settling.

I accepted situations, treatment, and relationships that were far below where I wanted to be. Why? I wanted to be thankful. I wanted to be someone who invested in others without placing demands on them. I accepted the bare minimum because Christianity taught me to put others first, forgive everything, and—somewhere along the way—I neglected the truth that God actually cares how I am treated.

There was far more emphasis on how I could love the church and others, and far less focus on how deeply God loved me.

When “Love” Looks Like Settling

I settled because I was told that’s what love does.
I settled because I believed I was demonstrating unselfish, sacrificial love.

What I failed to see—and what no one pointed out to me—was that I was failing to recognize my own value. I chose mediocre. God did not choose that for me.

I remember talking with a woman from church one day when she said,
“Erin, no matter how poorly I treat you, you’re always there for me. I just love you.”

That wasn’t a compliment. It was a slap in the face.

She knew the behavior was wrong. She continued because I tolerated it. I wasn’t a complete doormat—I simply chose to forgive her over and over again. I loved her despite her lack of love for me.

What I tolerated was a misalignment.

I was not living empowered or free. I was living a life of settling.

A Dangerous—but Life‑Changing—Prayer

This pattern continued for several more years with other long‑standing relationships, until I prayed a dangerous yet powerful prayer:

“God, anything that is not tied to my destiny or Your best for my life, I ask that You remove it.”

Within months, several long‑term friendships ended. Some people picked arguments over nothing. One person told me God said not to remain friends. During that same season, I was laid off from my job.

Everything shifted—radically.

Seven Years Later…

Fast forward seven years.

  • I have completed three books
  • I founded and launched Lamb Enterprises LLC (Empowered & Free)
  • I’ve appeared on TV and radio
  • Dozens of people have encountered freedom through soul healing
  • Nearly 50 people have been trained in soul healing
  • Relationships 101 was featured at the 2025 London Book Fair
  • I entered a new corporate role and have been promoted four times
  • I’ve traveled the world
  • I’ve gained healthy, supportive, invested friendships
  • I’ve recently been featured in news articles across the U.S. and overseas

I told God that I sincerely desired Ephesians 3:20 blessings—and that I did not want to spend my entire life suffering, merely overcoming, and living in heartbreak.

Rethinking Suffering and God’s Nature

I understand deeply that following Jesus can include persecution and suffering.
But I do not believe life was intended to be endless tears, disappointment, pain, heartache, or surviving on crumbs from someone else’s table.

I believe God desires more for His children than we would ever desire for our own.

Years ago, I had a vision. I was standing in a massive room with God. I couldn’t see God’s face, but I could hear His voice. As far as I could see—upward and outward—were gold boxes with names etched on them.

I asked what they were.

God replied,

“These are all the promises I have for My children that they never claim.”

The Lie of a “Cosmic Bully” God

I believe God is good.

Sadly, culture—and parts of religion—have portrayed God as a cosmic bully: demanding, cruel, and only interested in being worshiped. This false image shapes people’s expectations of God. They stop expecting much at all.

They stop believing for the exceedingly, abundantly, above all they could ask or imagine.

They settle and call it holiness.
They settle and say, “It’s God’s will.”
They remain stuck, assuming God is only trying to teach them a lesson.

God is absolutely able to turn ashes into beauty. But that does not mean God needs to burn everything to the ground to create something beautiful.

The message that God turns messes into messages should never encourage people to create messes just to see what God will do.

I don’t need to cut myself to prove that a doctor knows how to stitch wounds.

An Invitation to Freedom

My encouragement to you is this:

Ask God where you may be settling for less than what He wants to give you.

Ask God where your heart or mind may be bound.
Ask for freedom.
Ask for fresh eyes to see yourself—and your destiny—through God’s eyes.
Ask God to heal any wounds caused by religious teaching that painted Him as a cosmic bully.

There is more for you.
More for you in God and with God.

You were never designed to live bound, overlooked, or surviving on crumbs. Ask God where you may be settling—and be brave enough to receive what He’s always wanted to give you.

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Love,

Erin Lamb

God Highly Values You!

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A lesson from my jeweler: what’s valued is not easily accessible.

My jeweler knows me; when I see her, she’s comfortable pulling diamonds and gems out of the case and handing them over to me. She knows who I am; she’s vetted me and sold me several pieces. You’ll note that everything that is real and costly is locked up – you cannot grab what you want. You’ll notice they do not offer diamonds at the price or availability of costume jewelry.

In human relationships, I’ve witnessed people offer themselves over to people who treat them horribly. Their open access, refusal to vet people, and lack of any boundaries lead to being used, abused, and mistreated.

Cheap and easy works well for fast food; it’s a recipe for disaster in matters of the heart.

I am not stating that materialism is the key to a good relationship, nor playing hard to get. I am stating that things shift when you start viewing access to you as something that requires vetting people. It is wise to see your value and worth and cease placing diamonds (your heart, body, time) in the hands of those who are not trustworthy. It means you allow people to see who you are, yet access to your inner world is reserved for those deemed trustworthy.

Early in my life I desired to love everyone and be an asset to everyone. What I learned were hard lessons. One lesson was love and access are not the same. You can love people and set boundaries with their access to you.

I talk about this in Relationships 101: Foundational Wisdom for Better Relationships. We choose the level of access people have to us.

I love traveling and I am planning to return to Asia soon. When I purchase tickets, they provide access to seats based on what we paid for in the ticket price. First Class seats are reserved for people who paid that price. Economy guests are not provided First Class privileges.

I was guilty of providing VIP treatment to economy people. I provided best friendship to lukewarm friends. I over invested in consumers. It was unwise and unhealthy.

When we know how valuable we are, we are highly selective of who has the closest access to us. We can love everyone. Trust is earned. Access is contingent on trust.

God placed such a high value on you that He paid the highest price to secure a relationship with you. You are not considered low value to God. It does not matter how others have interacted with you or treated you! What matters is the Creator of the Universe thinks the world of you! You were created on purpose. You are a handcrafted, original gem from the imagination of God.

Live loved.

Live on purpose.

Love,

Erin L Lamb

The Purpose Workshop: Why Finding Your “Why” Changes Everything

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Have you ever felt busy—but not always sure why you’re doing what you’re doing?

That’s exactly why the Purpose Workshop exists.

Finding your “why” isn’t about having all the answers or creating a perfect life plan. It’s about getting clear on what truly matters to you—so your decisions, goals, and energy are aligned with something meaningful. When you know your why, everything else starts to make more sense.

And that’s what we’ll be focusing on in our April 18, 2026 Virtual Purpose Workshop.

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Why Finding Your “Why” Matters

When you’re clear on your purpose, you:

  • Make decisions with more confidence
  • Stop chasing goals that don’t actually fulfill you
  • Feel more grounded and focused in your personal and professional life
  • Create direction—even during seasons of uncertainty

This workshop is designed to help you slow down, reflect, and reconnect with what drives you—without pressure, judgment, or overwhelm.

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How the Workshop Works

The Purpose Workshop is a live, instructor‑led virtual session, but it’s built with flexibility in mind. If you can attend live, great. If you can’t, you’ll still get everything you need.

When you register, you’ll receive:

  • Access to the live virtual workshop on April 18
  • Downloadable course materials you can keep
  • The full workshop recording sent after the session

That means you can:

  • Join live and participate in real time
  • Watch the replay on your own schedule
  • Revisit the materials whenever you need clarity or a reset

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Perfect for Busy Schedules (and Real Life)

Life happens. Work runs late. Family needs you. Energy comes and goes.

That’s why this workshop doesn’t require you to be glued to your screen at a specific time. Many students actually prefer watching the recording so they can pause, reflect, and take notes at their own pace.

No matter how you attend, you’ll walk away with tools and insights you can use long after the workshop ends.

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Save Your Spot for the Purpose Workshop

Registration guarantees access to all materials and the full recording, even if you can’t attend live. Space is limited, so we recommend reserving your spot early.

👉 https://www.empowered-free.com/product-page/the-purpose-workshop-virtual

If you’ve been feeling stuck, disconnected, or simply ready for more clarity, this workshop is a great place to start.

I’d love to see you there! Those who attended in person last weekend stated it was meaningful and impactful for them.

Love,

Erin Lamb

What Will Your Legacy Be?

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Maybe it’s my personality. Maybe it’s growing up the oldest child with older parents. My brain has been wired for quite some time to think about legacy, purpose, and what my impact will be on the world. It made for interesting conversations with people in my age group. While they were thinking about right now and the immediate, my heart was leaning into what will be?

I believe we were created for more than taking up space, seeking our own pleasure, and then death. I believe we were created with a divine purpose. We are the walking, talking, paintings of God. We are the poems he has written on the pages of creation. Everything God created has a purpose. Do we all find this divine purpose and then align our lives with this purpose?

In my years of mentoring children, young adults, and even adults I will say I’ve encountered countless people who do not know why God put them on earth during this period of time. They are taking up space, completing the daily grind, hustling, some living paycheck to paycheck, and some dislike their lives.

Life was meant to be enjoyed, not simply endured. Yes, I am aware that in this world there will be trouble. I have certainly lived through long seasons of suffering, loss, and even betrayal. What I can say is, it has not all been suffering. There are tears that turned into joy. There have been moments of laughter and bliss. There have been whispers from God that made my heart soar.

When we know why God created us, it provides an opportunity to live aligned with our why. We enjoy life more. We can make meaning of even the most challenging circumstances. We are able to find contentment and satisfaction in our doing. We begin to do from our why instead of doing to find our why. Our identity becomes the spring board for our choices. We begin to ask if people, places, or opportunities align with who we are.

My why is linked to what I would love for my legacy to be. I desire people know the heart of God and it manifests in city outreaches to the invisible people on the streets, to victims of human trafficking, to children with no parents or parents who are too busy, to other women of color looking for anyone who looks like them in corporate leadership, to the hungry, to the sick without healthcare, and well, that is what I’ve done.

I posted to my social media last night, that if this were my last year of life, I would be happy with what I’ve done. It’s not for my fame or glory. A good number of years of my life what I’ve done or do has been in the shadows. There was no fan fare. No people lining up to support the mission. It was moving day in and day out on a mission. I hoped for and hope for the applause of heaven.

I hope you find your mission or purpose, if you have not already. I hope you find your why. Life is, from my perspective, more meaningful when we live in alignment with our why!

If you need help mapping your purpose or finding your why, you are invited to join us March 7, 2026 in Columbus, Ohio for The Purpose Workshop. Your legacy matters! You can live more fulfilled. Join us. Seats are limited. https://tinyurl.com/The-Purpose-Workshop-2026

Love,

Erin Lamb